Can you believe it? Rejection is a kind of wisdom, is a kind of beauty.
The tender grass declined with tall trees for the high, but gained exclusive mother earth warm embrace fun; winter Lamei declined in the spring sunshine with a hundred flowers contend in beauty, but gained and snow dance with the wind whistled fun; the Tibetan Plateau to the flat, but gained rare earth with lofty broad-minded, has a unique beauty.

Grass, plum, Tibetan Plateau, together they explained to us a truth: denial is a beautiful wisdom, rejection is obtained.
However, as the intelligent part of the universe of human, sometimes seem to do not understand that. People are born with a variety of different desire. People only know how to get, don’t give up, you just know you get better, do not know that refused to some extent it is also a kind of wisdom, refuse to even do not have a fun.
If each of us at birth, God sent us a basket. Knapsack capacity is limited, although we have a lot of desire, the way of life we can install it is only a small part of. This time, he appeared two kinds of different people; the first people, they want to bring along all the resplendent with variegated coloration stones, shells into her backpack, they loaded with ah ah, tired sweating, also must heavy loaded basket, a horse drawn cart generally towards the end. To the end, God asked: what have you got? He pointed to panniers. God speechless, gave him a basket. So, he began a new cycle.

Second kinds of people, he was aware of his ability is limited, therefore, he know how to do what. Along the way, he just choose their own stones, not his own, though beautiful, its brightness dazzles the eyes. Again, he is a contemptuous disregard. So back basket of light, he is free to see the beautiful scenery along the way, he happily on, life fun. To the end, God asked him: what have you got? He replied: ” I got something belongs to me, at the same time, I find that life is so beautiful. ” God smile, gave him a pair of wings, let him become an angel. God said: ” you know how to refuse and get, you refuse to not belong to you, get happy, you have to understand the meaning of life, can do god. ”
Friend, don’t you ever have a few feeling? Just a little touched? You are willing to do what kind of people?
The meaning of life is happiness, for some students do not bring death to be rather baffling desire, to give up happiness, is worth? The first kind of life, it is what we want?

He abandon the dignity, for his horse, he won out eternal legend Wu; Yue Fei refused to compromise with the Qin Hui, he won the admiration of later generations; Lin Zexu refused to negotiate with foreigners, to become a hero; eight small roads refused to divulge the secret enemy, he won the respect of the people; Chinese people rejected the Soviet Union ‘s so-called ” help ” ever since, self-improvement, the courage to stand up. Since ancient times, countless historical facts prove to us, to have access to.
The wise man knows, is those who refuse. Rejected unrealistic desire, but held throughout life, won the whole sky.
Remember me! There is a wisdom called refused.





I have often don’t know how to refuse the unreasonable request.Rejection is a kind of wisdom.It’s really true.
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